City of Olympia DEI Program Manager is a Trans Pornographer

Tobi Hill-Meyer directed and performed in films such as The Genderfellator, Fuckstyles of the Queer and Famous and taught Muffing 101 at Kink University as well as writing children's books

I AM WARNING Y’ALL: This piece is NSFW, it contains images and links to pornography that some may find offensive. There is discussion of sexual fetishes, including those involving children. I am going to have to go there in order to fully report this story.

The City of Olympia recently was the first in Washington state and only the second in the United States to paint the trans flag at the intersection of 5th and Washington Street. This was done in the name of diversity and inclusion without regard as to how divisive it is for the community as a whole.

Any criticism is seen as hate or “transphobia,” when there are other valid reasons to see this as problematic, including that it establishes preferred castes in Olympia. They/them are untouchable and basically anyone who does not believe in the trans religion, which it is, by any reasonable analysis, is labeled a bigot or TERF.

In the trans cult there are sacred objects, people and rituals. Transitioning itself is akin to being born again. Changing sex is a form of magical thinking as is the gendered soul. There are complex rules, especially for dealing with doubt, which requires faith and is actually seen as a sign of belief.

There is evangelizing and there is excommunication, as detransitioners so painfully find out. There is no D in the alphabet community. Like ex Scientologists or Mormons, detransitioners are particularly threatening and are treated as “suppressive persons” to be shunned and reviled.

You will be reassured to know however, that despite its increasingly dystopian nature, Olympia has a full 100% score on equity, which goes beyond equality, by favoring LGBTQ groups in employment, funding and policy decisions. While Olympia is a town that is welcoming to gay and trans people, which is admirable, the city should not promote one sexual orientation as being superior. They should also not promote gender ideology which is harming people.

As a government, they are expected to be neutral and treat every resident with equal respect and opportunity. In this, the City of Olympia is failing. A 2021 Community Values Survey commissioned and endorsed by the city for its sound methodology found that approximately 46% of white non-college educated people of both sexes do not feel welcome or included in Olympia. This is the same number as BIPOC people percentage wise, but population wise, a far greater number.

I have talked to many white males who do not bother applying for grants or positions because they know there is no way they will be considered. I know several white males who considered running for office but didn’t because they knew they would not be elected based on their race and sex.

This is discrimination and is as wrong as denying blacks or gay or trans people opportunity. The city should look for the best person for the job with no regard to immutable characteristics or personal faith. So should voters.

LGBTQ people have faced significant discrimination in the past but I reject preferential treatment in the present to make up for it. It is insulting AF to be viewed as a checkbox on an equity scorecard. It also can create imposter syndrome—do they appreciate my talent, or am I a just feel good reflection on their moral superiority?

I don’t want people to vote for me or buy my art because I am LGB or fat or disabled, or for that matter, despite my sexual orientation, weight or disability, but because I produce quality work of value.

Instead of working to unite Olympia and make it a city that is truly welcoming to all, the city hired Tobi Hill-Meyer, a radical trans (check), Chicana (check), Indigenous (ooh, double check!!!) pornographer (Stop!!!! Safe word! Safe word!) to lead the process of dividing the city even further as DEI Program Manager.

Hill-Meyer, a polyamorous transwoman, has directed and acted in hard core pornography, expressed hatred of women on social media and does not appear to have the qualifications listed for the position.

Here Hill-Meyer posts about her new position as she resigns from the Gender Justice League, a group she cofounded:

Hill-Meyer’s active engagement in the porn world caused one employer to have second thoughts. An LGBTQ employer at that.

Her job gives her great influence on what the city’s equity agenda is. Watch Tobi Hill-Meyer Provides Context to Olympia Trans & Binary Resolution - ONN Provides More Context here. This is where you can see her goals.

DRAG IS NOT PROGRESSIVE

This is why we have a transgender flag crosswalk and a drag show on children’s day at the Love Olympia festival, both designed to be aggressive and provocative, with drag being forced on families. Why couldn’t they have chosen a children’s musician or a magic act? That wouldn’t get enough virtue points.

This is deliberately inviting protests which could endanger children. This is not responsible. It is a demonstration of the power of the sacred caste to determine acceptable children’s entertainment. Why is there this obsession with drag in children’s spaces? Why do they want it so bad?

Here we have both misogynay AND misandry. HTF.

Not to mention drag is womanface, which a lot of women find offensive in part due to the stereotypes of women it presents which are almost always hypersexualized, clownish and not flattering.

Here are the sponsors of the festival in case people want to make their feelings known. Many may not be aware of what their donations are funding, some will be enthusiastic about paying drag queens to shake their groove thang for kids.

Will tips be allowed? Parents need to know! Should they/them bring lots of singles?

I have yet to see programming geared toward the 46% of alienated Olympians. They are ignored, forgotten, while a much smaller population is prioritized. I would prefer to see events with broad appeal that truly unify instead of segregating by identity. The Pet Parade and Procession of the Species, to which the city cut funding despite it being a keystone event beloved by almost everyone, are good examples. The Procession art studio was nearly apolitical. Skills were learned, friendships formed, joy had. Real unity.

Forgotten in Olympia’s equity lens is women, men, the elderly, the disabled and the working poor. There are no celebrations or proclamations honoring older people or those living with disability, again a much larger and diverse population than queer people. They are not as sexy for moral masturbation.

There are no male centric events or entertainment that is geared toward conservative tastes. If we celebrate women, they had better be trans.

OLYMPIA IS THE MOST VIRTUOUS CITY IN THE NATION

In 2022, Olympia got a 100%, the highest possible score on the Municipal Equality Index, which purports to measure the city’s inclusivity through “laws, policies, services and leadership.” Based on the city’s own survey, they do not deserve that score.

The city wanted extra credit though, so they painted an intersection with the trans flag. This is no doubt probably in part to criticism they were not already doing enough for trans people by projecting trans colors on City Hall for Trans Day of Remembrance. This was seen as an act of violence, because OPD headquarters are there, and police, by their nature, want to harm trans people.

In the video below three brave and stunning activists dare to enter City Hall, despite the presence of police, to accuse the Council of transphobia. I am glad to report they were not genocided, either that night or since.

SO MANY REASONS TO BE OFFENDED

Some, including many feminists, find the trans flag offensive because the colors reinforce a gender binary they want broken. Some also find it offensive because the pastel colors are typically associated with children. The creator of the flag was a cross dressing fetishist with a thing for sissy porn and the colors are used for boy and girl love, which uses hearts and butterflies in similar colors.

Using progressive analysis, unpacking the progress flag would contend it is not so much about pedophilia but more about infantalizing people, which means it is about cisheteropartirarchal control and should be decolonized.

Progressives are, however, arguing for the liberation of children from their oppressors, especially their parents, who are said to consider children their property. That is a whole other rabbit hole, where Bill 5599 is a part.

At age 13 in Washington state, children can take control of their medical treatment, including gender surgeries, without parental knowledge or permission. Parents are not allowed in the exam room unless invited by the child and cannot view medical records. Most thirteen year olds can barely manage homework but they are expected to have sound clinical judgment about complicated medical issues?

Some could also find the crosswalk offensive as it is not the full progress flag, it does not include the black and brown stripes representing the BIPOC population, nor the Intersex circle, nor the 2 Spirit feathers.

So many reasons to be offended!

The flag is being driven over constantly which seems a bit disrespectful.

Will they retire it, no pun intended, with honors at the end of its service?

My main personal objection is separation of church and state. While trans is not a formal religion, it shares the same traits, as I listed above. For that reason, I don’t think the city should have done it, but since they did, the crosswalk concept should be applied equally to any group that requests one, in the interest of fairness. This has played out at the State Capitol campus where the Satanists are allowed to set up next to the creche.

Indeed, in July there is a Satan v God event at the Capitol. Demons of all sorts will be cast out. The Satanists will unbaptize you and relieve you of your misgendered past in a cleansing ritual. Not sure what is going to happen on the Revival side, though I hear there may be Christian rock.

CROSSWALK ERASES THE GAY AND LESBIAN COMMUNITY

The crosswalk also ignores the founding premise of Pride which was LGB acceptance. The whole reason for the season. Despite the transing of history through dishonest revisionism, trans and “queer” people did not play a great role in the origins of Stonewall, Pride and the LGB rights movement, including Act Up etc. Individual T and Q people may have shown up, but they did not create the Pride movement.

I know, I was there.

Queer was barely a concept at the time. It was mainly a slur a father would use when casting out their gay son, with people only beginning to “reclaim” it in the mid-late 80s, a couple decades post Stonewall. Very few people referred to themselves as such and it certainly did not include straights looking to be part of the rainbow for oppression points.

Because of reliable birth control, heteros were exploring their own sexual freedom at single bars, rarely did the worlds collide except at certain discos like Studio 54. Trans bars like the GG Barnum Room were distinct from gay and lesbian bars, again not a lot of cross pollination. Drag happened now and then, clearly adult.

This lack of representation shown by the city in painting the crosswalk only with trans colors and not including the original rainbow demonstrates the absolute contemporary domination of LGB culture which has been queered by trans beyond recognition.

There is resentment that progress made by LGBs is being threatened by the excesses of the T and Q. Many gays, lesbians and bisexuals, such as Gays Against Groomers, want a divorce from the T and the Q whose interests are often in direct conflict with the LGB.

Lesbians are not allowed to reject “ladydique” or “shenis” lest they be labeled transphobic bigots with outdated “genital preferences.” Gay man are pressured to enjoy “mangina.” Both are being forced to allow the opposite sex into their dating spaces both online and in real life. Women are no longer allowed to have female only dating preferences and bathhouses are letting in FtM people, who then lament on Reddit about how they were ignored.

At its core, T and Q culture is dismissive of gay and lesbian culture and attempts to erase not only their history, but gays and lesbians themselves, to use the terminology of the left. A high percentage of kids who join the trans cult are gay or lesbian. Instead of supporting them and telling them it’s ok to be gay, they are led down a path of synthetic sexual identity that makes promises that cannot be kept once the glitter tarnishes.

They are literally transing the gay away. Kids are often made sterile, so it can also be fairly described as a eugenics program to keep gays from reproducing. Men are left with a micropenis if given puberty blockers and if a woman can still get pregnant, she may not be able to breastfeed because she had a double mastectomy. There is a lot of grief among the detransitioners.

Ironically, any therapy designed to slow this process of physically disabling children for life, to explore possible pyschiatric comorbities, is called “conversion therapy” in an attempt to conflate it with highly unethical and inhumane programs of the past, often religious, used to try to make gays straight.

Previous conversion therapies were designed to psychologically force force lesbians to like penis and gay men to get aroused by vagina. In an epic act of projection, the T and Q cult are now the ones engaging in the same EXACT conversion therapy with a coordinated social pressure campaign on behalf of ladydiques and manginas.

Because of not only marginalization from their own movement, Pride has lost its deeper meaning for many LGBs, including myself. It has become HYPER commercialized as well as co-opted by the allies and the spicy straights who want to be in the club too.

Part of the gay subculture was being a counterculture that, while it wanted equal rights, did not beg for acceptance or or desire validation from the mainstream. We did not want corporations in our spaces or to be a field trip for the bridge and tunnel crowd. Authenticity has been lost, Pride is as synthetic as a phalloplasty.

Pride always had a sexual component, especially after dark, such as on the piers of New York. It always featured leather daddies in their finest but it was not as overtly kink oriented but more importantly, it was not sold as family friendly. I don’t recall sex acts being performed in the procession, which was often led by the dykes on bikes. It was sexy and fun, but not cringe.

It was NOT for children. Everyone pretty much knew and agreed on that. It was partially about image, we did not want to encourage the trope of converting children, but mostly it was about respect for boundaries. Pride was an event for adults and it was accepted it was not appropriate for children.

That is why we are appalled to see kink introduced in the schools. I report here about a book called The Queen’s English in a Chinook Elementary classroom that featured gloryholes and bog queens. They are open about queering children.

OLYMPIA HONORS THE MOST OPPRESSED MINORITY IN THE HISTORY OF OPPRESSION

In the following clip at the dedication of the crosswalk on June 3rd, lame duck Mayor Cheryl Selby gives a tepid word salad about human rights and the crosswalk is “what we need to do.” Why? She offers no insight as to why this will make a difference in the real lives of trans people or those affected by gender ideology.

DEI Program Manager Tobi Hill-Meyer then makes an emotional appeal based on a false interpretation as a child about an initiative that would have restricted same sex couples from adopting. Having two lesbian parents, she believed the police might come and take her away.

Hill-Meyer says there is “nothing more terrorizing” than separating a child from their family, which is exactly what recently passed Washington bill 5599 does. In the name of protecting trans children from abuse, it allows the state to conceal the location of a child as young as 13 from a parent and provide that child with “gender affirming care.” Since the state is already failing to serve homeless youth and foster children, it is also immoral to suggest to children they run to Washington for sanctuary.

This “powerlessness that shaped her” based on something that did not really exist is mirrored in the current transgender genocide moral panic where they are redefining the term harder than they even did with woman.

Fear indoctrination is a technique used in cults to inculcate an us against them mentality, sending the message you are only safe here, with your chosen glitter family. Your real family is toxic, they can never understand your struggle the way we do and you must cut off contact to be healthy. Which is incredibly cult like.

Fear is also used to raise funds, and, most concerning, justify violence against people, mainly women, who are pushing back against transgender ideology.

Women are slurred as “TERFS,” Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminists, verbally and physically abused, injured, spat upon and have had trash thrown on them. This violent abd socially approved misogyny happened in Port Townsend and Tacoma last year.

The cross walk also offers an invitation for vandals to deface it, which would then be used as proof of persecution. The safety of trans people in Olympia would now be at increased risk with further justification for violent retaliation against TERFS and CHUDS, both subhuman.

In her statement, Hill-Meyer worries about traveling to another state in the present and having her child taken by the government. She is creating another powerless self harming moment.

It is not going to happen, though I am going to present later in this article that Hill-Meyer exhibits signs of a breastfeeding fetish, which is not uncommon in the trans world where forced lactation and “chestfeeding” can lead to “gender euphoria,” which is trans code for sexual excitement. Transwomen will take various medications to induce lactation, the resulting fluid has not been tested for safety or nutrition.

Most of what is billed as anti-trans legislation the City of Olympia is so concerned about is about protecting children from life altering medical procedures that sterilize them, amputate healthy tissue and leaves them unable to sexually function. Some will never experience orgasm.

We do not know the long term health effects of puberty blockers and cross sex hormones. These experiments are being done on this generation’s gay and autistic youth. Detransitioners often have deep regret, many ask why nobody stopped them. Britain’s NHS recently said they would no longer give puberty blockers to children due to the harm. The lawsuits have begun.

This is nothing to be proud of.

This is not something a city should endorse.

WHY DID THE CITY HIRE AN UNQUALIFIED PORNOGRAPHER FOR SUCH A POWERFUL POSITION?

The only guess is this was the most “marginalized person” they could find with the “lived experience” to “make a difference.” It raises questions as to what vetting process was used by the city. Did they not know of the pornography or did they not care?

Or did they see it as a plus, as did the Olympia School District did when they appointed convicted felon Talauna Reed to the school board to better meet their equity goals?

How many points did Hill-Meyer score for the city on the Municipal Equality Index?

Leaders should be people we can look up to and want to emulate. I don’t think being an expert at fisting and cock and ball torture (CBT) is super admirable or worthy of respect in a public official.

CLIPS OF TOBI HILL-MEYER’S PORNOGRAPHY

Do not click on the following links unless you want to see explicit porn. Some of the images in this section are pornographic. Some of them you will want to unsee and/or may need the eye bleach for depending on your personal sexual preferences.

GENDERFELLATOR

Scene 1 from Handbasket Production's Genderfellator is streaming at Reagan Foxx here.

Here is the summary of this groundbreakin’ genderbendin’ porn parody which Hill-Meyer directed and produced.

A review of Genderfellator.

If you prefer a video review, look no further! Hagan Reviews - The Genderfellator : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming on the Internet Archive.

A publicity still.

FUCKSTYLES OF THE QUEER AND FAMOUS

This perhaps Hill-Meyer’s most well known film, found on demand here.

It is a compilation film with lots to offer, from knife play to pegging, all authentic.

Here is a summary of the scene with Hill-Meyer.

As described in Unsafe Words Queering Consent in the #MeToo Era, “The work of getting fisted requires one to step away from the mind’s natural defenses, the body’s resistance and tension, and literally open oneself to whatever comes, whatever is being dealt. When you get to that place, fisting gets good.

“Overriding that ‘no’ is not always without consequence—but no part of fisting is. This is high-risk sex sport. The physical risks of harm and injury are substantial, no matter how hard or gently a person likes to play.”

KINK UNIVERSITY

Perhaps fisting does not make you tremble. Or maybe it does, but not in a good way. Maybe cock and ball torture is more your jam. Speaking of jamming, Hill-Meyer has you covered here.

Muffing 101 - Penetration for Trans Women and CBT even has an IMDB credit!

OTHER PROJECTS BY TOBI HILL-MEYER

Here is another film from the Crash Pad series that is fat positive, nothing wrong with that. It is both sweet AND kinky, a very hard needle to thread.

This one looks pretty hot.

Hill-Meyer is called a legend in her field! This from 2020.

She donates porn to good causes!

Here is how you can get yours! (Though I think the offer expired? It is pinned on her Twitter profile so you might still be able to get hooked up)

For the literary types Hill-Meyer got you boo. This appears to have been done while employed by the city.

TOBI HILL-MEYER ON PARENTING

I regret having to go here but I feel it is relevant. I urge the reader who is not familiar with trans and lactation fetish to do a little research, particularly on Reddit where tran identified individuals speak honestly about wanting to “breastfeed” to induce “gender euphoria.”

In other words, they experience sexual excitement from having an infant suck on their nipples. There are also several prominent trans “breastfeeding” accounts on Twitter.

Many men pretend to be pregnant going so far as to stage pretend births. I read one account of a man who planned on using a taser to replicate labor pains. A lot of men claim to get periods when on cross sex hormones. Some go so far as to wear “bloodied” pads, I have even read one account of a male who would retrieve used sanitary products in the ladies room for this purpose. But they just want to pee!

I wish I was making this stuff up.

We can never know the motivations of Hill-Myer, but given she is deep in the fetish world it is not an unreasonable question to at least consider. She is open about “chestfeeding” her baby, who appears to have three moms and no conception of dad.

The men who “nurse” infants for “gender euphoria” are not putting the baby’s needs first, and it is considered by some to be sexual abuse. Remarkably, many state’s child protection agencies do not see it as such and will not even investigate claims, despite the act being a red flag.

There has been no chemical analysis of the fluid these men produce using artifical cocktails of medications and hormones. There is absolutely no study on the potential for developmental harm in the children both medically and psychologically.

Hill-Meyer defends kink at Pride, even for children.

But she gets exhausted having to have the same repetitive arguments defending it.

TOBI HILL-MEYER IS A MISOGYNIST

She dehumanizes any women that dare to push back on her agenda, retweeting about mocking and silencing them.

She is open about using the term TERF, which is a derogatory slur. If she used any other slur toward a population like the word that shall never be said or faggot, the city would have no choice but to fire her. Misogyny is still on the approved list however.

Strangely Hill-Meyer is both “nonbinary” and a woman who trends toward being butch. It makes her super special and someone whom we should worship as having knowledge we could not access otherwise.

She openly colonizes lesbian spaces.

She believes in the fallacy of a woman’s penis.

THE QUEERING OF GOVERNMENT

A good percentage of people have no problem with porn, or even kink if kept private. Most don’t want government in the bedroom, but they also don’t want the bedroom in their government.

This article is not to sex or slut shame Hill-Meyer, its purpose is to give Olympia residents a fuller picture of who is making decision on their behalf. Hill-Meyer can do whatever she wants in her personal life, but she is a representative of the city now.

I am sure I will be slurred with label SWERF, “Sex Worker Exclusionary Feminist” for reporting this story, all based on primary sources. I will also be called a TERF for pushing back against gender ideology. I believe this is a background the public deserves to know to make sense of where the city is putting its priorities.

I do not think Hill-Meyer can do her job in a way that is fair or equitable for the residents of Olympia. Hill-Meyers attitudes and use of slurs toward women should disqualify her.

She also seems to be part of the abolish movement to defund the police, which is concerning.

Notice how sanitized Hill-Meyer’s biography is in public facing materials. Why doesn’t the city present an accurate and full description of her career? Especially given it is such a large part of her life and identity?

Is the City of Olympia really SWERF? And if so, how can Hill-Meyer accept that six-figure-dirty-money-salary from slut shaming bigots?

MORE TOBI HILL-MEYER IN HER OWN WORDS

A compilation.

In case you were wondering about her opinion on castration? HOT AF!

Groundbreaking work here that definitely does not scream autogynephilia.

Here Tobi Hill-Meyer lectures on The One Penis Policy (Saint Louis, MO - 4.7.19).

On baby showers, which she wrote a book, Super Power Baby Shower, which features three moms, in an attempt to normalize polyamory for children. BTW? Did you know our very own Olympia School Board Director Scott Cliffthorne is an out and proud poly? And THREE OSD board members have trans children? What are the odds?

Hill-Meyer does have some sexual practices that are off limits. For example, she does not want to breast feed firetrucks on Zoom.

Catching Up with Tobi Hill-Meyer here, where she talks about having to have a new way to get off every six months or she gets bored.

In the below video Hill-Meyer discusses Nerve Endings: The New Trans Erotica as well as her children’s books, A Princess of Great Daring and Super Power Baby Shower.

Here is the summary of A Princess of Great Daring:

CALL TO ACTION If you have concerns about Tobi Hill-Meyer, you can contact various city officials here.

https://www.olympiawa.gov/news___information/contact_us.php

Candace Mercer is an artist/writer/activist based in Olympia, WA. She has written on homeless response and political violence in the PNW. In 2021, she ran for Olympia City Council. Her art can be found at candio.com.